FILMATIQUE: Set in contemporary Athens, Pari follows the path of the eponymous character, a dutiful Iranian mother and wife, and she sinks deeper into the urban labyrinth in search of her missing son. How did you first have the idea for this, your feature film debut?
SIAMAK ETEMADI: Pari is the name of my mother. Every few years she visits me in Athens. She is a gentle woman who speaks very few words of English. Each time she comes, I pick her up from the airport. Once, when I was waiting for her in the arrival lounge, I imagined what would happen if I had an accident and couldn't go to the airport or even inform her where I was. What would this woman do alone in a foreign land? I asked her. She said she would move mountains to find me. I knew what she meant. Neither the language barrier nor her natural shyness would stop her from turning every stone in this city to find her son. I wondered what this inner drive is that makes us go past our limits and overcome our inhibitions; our fears. Is it not a desire—a deep craving for something or someone that is not fulfilled? In classical Persian poetry it is called 'longing for the beloved'. This feeling was the starting point for the story.
FLMTQ: Though Iranian by birth, you are currently based in Athens. How would you compare the geographic and cultural specificities between these two locales, and how did you translate your experience to the film's script?
SE: There are autobiographical elements in the story: like Pari, I was once a total stranger in Athens. Like the son's character, I was once a student here. I live in Exarchia, a neighborhood that is the centre of political dissent in the city, and so on. My identity is as much shaped by my Iranian roots as it is by my life in Greece. And these experiences are reflected in the story.
On the one hand, there are cultural values from my Iranian background: its Islamic state, as well as its classical Persian poetry—with themes of love, longing, and rebirth. On the other hand, there is this Greek culture and setting: its Western freedoms and urban energy, along with its ancient tragedies and their psychological insights. A key scene in the film—when Pari is finally given crucial information about her son—was inspired by Oedipus meeting Tiresias and takes place in a stone theatre. I feel that the clash and merge of these cultures inside Pari can reflect a crucial experience of our times.